Hello 3rd trimester!!! I can’t believe it’s been already 28 weeks that I have a little miracle growing inside of my belly. It is, hands down, the best experience of my life! So before I was wondering about the purpose of life, having children (own or adopted) just might be it!
I won’t say that it’s just sunshine and roses all the time, but it’s definitely worth the end result!
You may or may not recall, but last year I wrote a post about my struggle with my body image in the past. And even though I do have some off days here and there like everybody else, I do my absolute best to welcome and celebrate the changes my body goes through during pregnancy. Creating life is the most beautiful thing on Earth and we as women should embrace it.
This being said, there are so many people who are out there who feel entitled to make comments to future mothers like ‘Gosh! You are so small! Is it normal?’ or ‘Are you sure you don’t have twins in there?’. To me, each pregnancy is unique and as long as the baby is growing normally and you make healthy choices for the both of you, you are a great mother: Your size says absolutely nothing about your baby’s health or development.
What some individuals don’t realize is that those comments may be hurtful, especially if you catch a mommy-to-be on a day when she is not feeling that great about herself.
Recently, Cassey Ho from Blogilates, whom I greatly admire, did a social experiment on her Instagram account. What was the reason? She got really fed up with all negativity and cyber-bullying. Let’s be fair, famous or not, pregnant or not, we all have days when our self-esteem is not at its highest. So what she did is posted a photoshoped picture of herself with the ‘perfect’ body, but she didn’t mention anything to anyone.
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I remember scrolling through that picture. I was surprised by a drastic change in her body and thought to myself that something was off. I won’t lie, I was confused because those who follow Blogilates know that it’s just not the way she is. But as usual, there were plenty comments from both haters and admirers.
A day later, Cassey posted the following video on Youtube:
I was instantly relieved and reminded why I like her so much! What is the perfect body, anyway? Who is it that decides?
I remembered about a video on BuzzFeed posted a few months back about women’s ideal body types throughout history. Check it out for youself:
Lesson learned? EVERY SINGLE BODY IS BEAUTIFUL in its own and unique way. There is no such thing as a perfect or ideal body. We should all celebrate our beauty and uniqueness! This is why I was absolutely thrilled when a few weeks ago I was contacted by a company called eShakti to review their product.
eShakti.com is the only online women’s fashion apparel company offering sizes 0-36W and custom clothing. What I loved about it from the get go is that the company believes that all women have the right to wear affordable fashion that is made for them and makes them look their absolute best. *FINALLY!*
I was offered a choice of an outfit, and even though it was gifted to me, all opinions are my own.
Let me start by saying that normally I do not feel comfortable buying clothes online because I always have the fear ‘What if it doesn’t fit right?’, so I normally limit myself to buying books from Amazon. *What? A girl HAS GOT to shop! Haha!* The process, surprisingly was extremely straight forward.
Step 1: Choose the style
I went for a flowy maxi dress because I wanted to be able to wear it ASAP and for as long as I can, obviously! *Haha!*
Step 2: Customizing
This is the step that I normally fear.
I really loved that they have both standard and custom size option; especially that my baby bump is constantly growing! I can’t emphasize enough how happy I was to be able to put in extra comments to make sure that the inside lining wasn’t too tight to accommodate my growing baby girl. I also made sure to specify my height and ask to make the dress shorter (just enough to go all the way to the ground) because I plan on wearing flats and not high heels. *I’m all about comfort!*
There were also options to remove embroidery and/or pockets, but I really liked the dress the way it was and decided not to use them.
Step 3: Ordering
Ordering was as simple as it gets! But I’ll be honest, I was still very much apprehensive about the quality of the dress and whether it would look like it did in the picture. I was pleasantly surprised with the outcome!
The dress fit really well: All of my instructions were followed to the T. Even the length was perfect! The color and quality were also great. After all was said done, I might reconsider shopping for clothing online! *Sorry, my dear wallet! Hehe!*
And, of course, I was all for modeling it for you… AND CELEBRATING MY BEAUTIFUL BABY BUMP!
By the way, the last picture is my favorite! I look like an air balloon and I’m absolutely loving it!!!!
You can check out eShakti for yourself through the following media channels:
Finally, the company was kind enough to provide my readers with a discount of 10% until May 17, 2015. You can take advantage of it by entering code candiesandcrunches in ‘the promotional code’ box. *Please, be advised that I do not benefit from any of your purchases.*
A few other pointers:
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Finally, I’d like to finish off this post by saying the following:
EMBRACE YOUR BODY AND FEMININITY REGARDLESS YOUR AGE, SIZE OR BODY SHAPE! YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL!
How do you celebrate your body?
6 responses to “Pregnancy & Positive Body Image: Celebrating Femininity & All Body Types”
I love this post! Like I said on FB I really enjoyed Casey’s video and I’ve been a fan of hers for a long time. I like her mostly because she’s real. Her fitness ideas are things we can incorporate into actual real life without feeling bad about ourselves for never having a bodybuilding ready body. Also I liked that video about women’s bodies throughout history, it only goes to show that these ideals are constructs and we need to stop basing our values around them. AND finally, great dress. This company just seems fantastic and how cool is it to design it yourself! love that colour it is so summery and looks great xx
Wow – that was such a powerful video! I think, in general, we are all so hard on ourselves and other women that none of us really know what the ‘perfect body’ looks like because we very well could have it already, but will always find flaws.
I loved Cassey’s video! And I love this post! And I love your new dress! It seems I love a lot of things today. 😉 Your baby bump looks beautiful and so do you. Not small, not big, just there. Every woman’s different, like you said. It always bugs me when people say neg things about pregnant women like they’re too fat or gained too much weight etc. I mean, they’re growing a freakin’ BABY! Good grief.
You do look like a balloon in that last photo though. Looks super fun and happy! ^_^ hehehe
LOVE IT! Beautiful message my dear! And you’re just too stinking cute with your baby bump! LOVE IT! ❤
Love the vids, thanks for sharing. And omg you look amazing!! Lovely dress, and I can’t believe you’re already at 28 weeks!! Time flys, eh? Hope you’re not getting too much of the not so fun symptoms of pregnancy, I know my bestie was downing antacids like candy by this stage. You really look good though, like you’ve got that pregnancy glow!
You are such a precious pregnant lady. Did the baby arrive?! I loved the way I felt being pregnant – nothing more powerful and beautiful than knowing you are CREATING A PERSON. Best of luck with the little one! 🙂